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Author: 20yearsavi Subject: feel like a faliure
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posted on 04-09-2006 at 13:51 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
feel like a faliure

so last night was my first experenice with sex, it didn't go very well. My b/f is also a virgin so it took a while for him to figure things out, we tryed for over an hour and did get far.

my question is, does this happen often to people or just to the virgin that a small? should I try sex with a more experieced guy? HELP!!!
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posted on 04-09-2006 at 16:40 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
know the feeling!..

dont worry, the first time i tried with my boyfriend (also a virgin) we didnt get too far either.

what troubles were you having, if you dont mind me asking?
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posted on 04-10-2006 at 07:17 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
problems

well with the fact that there was no foreplay at all after awhile. It was also a matter of getting past my muscel that didn't want to relaxe.......

that brings up another question, if I didn't get that far, im I still a virgin( in some respects at lest)?
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posted on 04-10-2006 at 12:03 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
i am so sorry

relax
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posted on 04-10-2006 at 13:03 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
thoughts

thanks for the input. I'v been doing alot of thinking. I was comfortable but it didn't feel natural. I think my mind and body were basicly telling me that i was not ready and my b/f is not the guy for is.

sex is one confusing subject.
any other input or advice would help alot!!!!!!
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posted on 04-11-2006 at 09:27 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
funny!

I find it comical, because i am 18 and am ready to comit suicide if i dont get laid soon...and your twenty!....most girls walk about like there not virgins it good to know there is still mature virgins out there......and you should not feel like a failure anyway, your boyfriend should....it is not rocket science and no fourplay?...no wonder you did want to open up....
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posted on 04-11-2006 at 12:33 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
interesting

I have been thinking alot about this lately. I think that deep down my b/f is not the "One" so to speek and that I should wait longer..... I have somewhat thought of becoming the virgin cat lady:D sounds funny but I wish the sex thing was so much easyer......!!!
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posted on 04-11-2006 at 12:44 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
question

should I stick with a guy that has already had experience? all my experenices with virgin guy is that they want ti, but don't take the time to educate themself on the "art" of the act
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posted on 04-12-2006 at 09:03 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
well

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posted on 04-12-2006 at 10:31 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
hummm....

i was having those same thoughts, though I would make sure if I were to have sex with an experienced guy he would have to prove to me that he would take his time and really show me that he is "the guy"

but how do you tell your b/f that you don't want to sleep with him again? im giving the excuse of waiting longer, don't want to hurt his feelings.
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