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Author: milwius2 Subject: Virgin wife..Painful for her ..please help..
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posted on 04-06-2006 at 21:41 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Virgin wife..Painful for her ..please help..

I am married to a girl who is virgin. When I try to put mine she is complaining about hurting. Will it really help to use lubricants? Not sure what to do. I do fingering and tongue but nothing seem to be working. Any girl with any thougts?? PLEASE HELP me. I love my wife and I wish sex becomes good too. Please help!!
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posted on 04-07-2006 at 09:19 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Advice

Yes, you need to be using lube and lots of it, especially for the first time. Sometimes natural lubrication is not enough. Try Astroglide or KY.....(I'm betting that your wife is hardly lubricated at all...no wonder it's painful!) You should place the lube on yourself as well....Remember: You can never use too much lube the first time!

You might want to post your question over at
"themarriagebed.com" click on "Discussion boards" and find an appropriate forum to post your question. The people are older, experienced and better informed in matters of sex and you will find more helpful advice then on this site!!! (most of the people on this site are virgins, so they won't be able to help you) There are also threads on 'stretching exercises your wife can do" on that site that will be helpful to her

You also might want to see a sex therapist if this becomes a problem...There might be something else wrong. Sex really shouldn't be THAT difficult if you are doing everything right. Tell your wife to see a gyno as well. She could have a physical problem. Repressed ideas about sexuality can also cause psychological hang-ups about sex that might also be effecting her. She could have a problem called vaginismus... http://www.vaginismus.com/
http://www.vaginismus.com/understanding_vaginismus/

Here are good links to post your question:

http://www.themarriagebed.com/boards/viewforum.php?f=28&sid=3214a317524a8b2cdae7774214ca44fa

http://www.themarriagebed.com/boards/viewtopic.php?t=4264

The above link has info on 'streching exercises'

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posted on 04-09-2006 at 16:15 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Thank you so much!!

Great information. Thank you very much. I really appreciate your help. You pointed me to great resources. Thanks again!!!
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