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Author: do_whats_best Subject: 1st time.. please help!
Lady_girl
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posted on 03-28-2006 at 15:50 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
1st time.. please help!

iv been with my boyfriend for two months now, n we've been fooling around for a while, he tried to put his finger into my vagina but it hurt so he stopped, then the second time he got a bit further in until it hurt, i read that its better to let him finger me first before trying to have sex, will it hurt less each time, or do i just need to let him do it despite the pain? i really want him to but he's more worried about hurting me.
just curious if the pain will get less or if its something i have to deal with for the first time?
any help would be great, thanx.

p.s if i bleed would it be a lot?
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dreamangel
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posted on 03-28-2006 at 19:40 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Practice stretching

Okay..just one word: Lube, Lube, Lube...You need to be either naturally lubricated and often this is not enough so you need to buy some lube (Astro Glide, KY..ect) A finger or anything else will hurt if you are not well lubricated and relaxed....You should also practice with your own finger and 'stretch' yourself beforehand. Do a google search for 'vaginal' stretching exercises, it will help with the pain.
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posted on 03-29-2006 at 00:27 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Uh, yeah.

He totally should be getting you ready vs. just throwin it in there. He should really slow down and make sure you are good and ready. I don't mean mentally ready. I mean, lube, and his finger, and spend some time enjoying that. But yeah just like she said, its always best if you know the playing field better yourself. So take some time and learn whats good for you. Then you'll be able to help him more so he doesn't have to fumble through it. And no, you wouldn't bleed a lot.
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posted on 03-29-2006 at 14:29 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
lube

cheers for that :)
il try that, but i was already pretty wet when he tried the second time? do i put the lube on me and him?little confused sorry.
we're both new at this so any other advice would go down great.
thanx all, this forum is great!
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posted on 06-22-2006 at 03:07 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
4play

I agree with wardrobelamppost. Wen me n my bf first did stuff like tht it hurt n we stopd cuz he didn’t wana hurt me bt hes fingerd me a few times since n it dusnt hurt nemor its jus fun lol. I found tht it was easier if we had been kissin n touchin each other 4 a while b4 tryin it, hope it helps,
Luck n love, xxx
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