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Author: Rkyeun Subject: I need serious help!
DoloresRiho
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posted on 09-27-2004 at 10:28 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
I need serious help!

Hi! I've never dated before and I have NEVER had a BF. And I'm 15! Is that wrong? I don't understand the whole 'Boy friend' thing. I have a crush on a cartoon Character! Is that sad? Do I sound desperate? I don't want to commit suicide over the 'break up' process. Do I need a boy friend?
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guyvirgin1977
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posted on 10-03-2004 at 18:00 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
it's ok

Don't worry about it. You should never "need" a boyfriend You should already be a complete person. (if you are not already a complete person then work on that) However if a man comes along that can "enhance" you then maybe he might be the one for you:) However when you start to think you NEED a boyfriend your standards begin to lower and that is not a good thing. Keep your standards high, and be happy in your own skin!
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posted on 10-04-2004 at 09:27 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator


Don't worry! you are only 15 , not 100. LOL . Just be yourself . there is nothing wrong with never having a bf at 15. you don't need one, although they can be nice. but if you don't understand "the whole bf thing" and you're into cartoon characters, maybe your just not ready to date.
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posted on 10-06-2004 at 00:32 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Aagain, I must agree

Again, these guys are giving great advice. Do pay heed Delores.
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Rkyeun
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posted on 11-25-2004 at 04:59 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator


There is no reason to rush into things.
You are confused and paniced, and this is not the time to be making serious life-altering decisions. You are young, and will have plenty of opportunity.
You should never look for a boyfriend merely for the sake of having one, alas, how sad and shallow that relationship would be.
Instead, find a few you enjoy being around. Boys that are friends. Get to know them. Study their role models. Look at their parents. Is this how you want your family to be? Does he show you the proper love and respect that you deserve? Do you return that love?
Out of all the world, you are expected to choose one to love through all of eternity, to experience heaven and suffer hell with. It can take time, and indeed you have plenty of it. Take your time and choose wisely. I hope you find someone worthy of you.
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