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Author: kriscurious Subject: How can I tell my husband I'm bi?
Jenifer
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posted on 06-03-2004 at 08:18 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
How can I tell my husband I'm bi?

I'm a happily married woman but I'm bi and I have needs for other women. He knows I'm interested in other women but doesn't know how far I want to go and that I'm bi. How can I tell him?:o
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posted on 06-03-2004 at 08:20 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator


Honesty is the best policy.
How to tell him, umm I would pick my time, tell him beforehand that you have something you wish to discuss with him and then tell him your feelings.
Make sure you reassure him
and see what he says.
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posted on 06-03-2004 at 08:25 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator


If he knows you're into or like women, what difference does it make to what extent? Like is like. His knowing of your "interest" is enough for him... meaning you don't have to tell no more than you HAVE to. OK??? For real!

Does he tell you everything, with ALL the details? I don't think so.

Some things are better left unsaid, and to him, it's still an interest, because you're still with him, meaning you're either bicurious or "bisexual"... same as now. Right?

Just leave it alone. If you get too overwhelmed with it, and want to have a woman "permanently," then yeah... tell him THEN. But as long as it's thoughts, occasional issues, then just drop it... and have fun with this side of you.

We only have problems if we think we do .. And you and I both know that you don't need to be WORRYING about this.

You cool....

Be happy and enjoy what you have. You don't have a problem... Just go with the flow. Tell him FURTHER DETAILS ONLY if you want a woman.

That's how I'd play it... I denied being bisexual with my hubby because of the kids... We eventually got divorced, and I'm a lesbian. The desire to be with a woman was much greater than men... so eventually, you may have to choose what's it gonna be...

Especially if the right woman get her hands on you... lol!! Mums the word!!
Good Luck.
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posted on 06-03-2004 at 08:41 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator


Just tell him how you feel - the truth will set you free. This is not something that will go away and the last thing you want to be doing is sneaking around your husbands back to fulfill your needs.

regards,

Sad Angel.
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Honesty is best! If you try to hold it in you won't be happy and you could lose the friendship you have with him, plus you want to show that you respect him, give him a chance to understand, just be ready for the worst to happen. Good luck, and welcome.
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posted on 01-20-2009 at 18:54 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
telling your husband

Honesty! I just told my husband of my interest! It was the biggest weight lifted ever! Noone else knows though. He actually wants to watch!
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