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XO_stepdad

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posted on 03-18-2010 at 14:10

Children who don't want to visit

I am wondering if anybody has information for divorced parents who have children that don't like to visit them. A friend of mine asked me for advice about this situation, but I was at a loss for words and could not think of any advice to give.

Anyone have any words of wisdom?

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scharlie

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posted on 05-11-2010 at 22:49

suggestion

Hey XO,
i think if the children dont want to visit anyone of the two parents that means they have developed anger in themselves. that should be dissolved in by they cummulative thinking of both the parents.
i mean both the parents should know and believe that the troubled relationship between them has nothing to do with the the kids.
they must have both mom and dad.
it is their right...!
they parents should encourage the kids to meet and normalize the relationship wih the other parent too.

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XO_stepdad

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posted on 10-27-2010 at 11:08

Still curious

'Hey XO,
i think if the children dont want to visit anyone of the two parents that means they have developed anger in themselves. that should be dissolved in by they cummulative thinking of both the parents.
i mean both the parents should know and believe that the troubled relationship between them has nothing to do with the the kids.
they must have both mom and dad.
it is their right...!
they parents should encourage the kids to meet and normalize the relationship wih the other parent too.

Thanks for the insight, but I'm not sure if I would know what to tell someone if they were confronting this issue. You said that its a child's right to have both their fathe and their mother present in their life, which I agree with.

so is it better for children in this situation to spend time with both parents at the same time, or each on individually? Or some of both?

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